Who is this?

Filed Under (Kristin) by Jay on 20-11-2008

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Some late pix, but better late than never!  These were taken when Kristin visited Jeff and Anna Mae with Grammy and Poppop in the Pocono Mountains.  Airplanes, guns, and four wheelers!

Kristin seems comfortable enough…but who’s that on the back?

It’s Grammy!  Hi Grammy!  Why you lookin’ so…down?  Kristin driving a little aggressively?

Get the guns!  We’ll really have some fun!  Right Grammy?  Grammy?  Where’d she go?

First tooth out!

Filed Under (Paris) by Jay on 18-11-2008

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Asking Mom the question of the night…

So, I’m getting ready to get Paris into bed, and she hops up off the floor in her playroom and says “Hey!  What’s this?”  She picks up something off the carpet, brings it over to me, and it’s a tooth!  When I tell her, the question of the night starts being repeated over and over again…

“Is it bleeding?”

As we see, she was obviously feeling no ill side effects…

You can’t even tell!

So what happens when a young one loses a tooth?  Tooth Fairy!  Oma and Opa are visiting, so Oma reminded Paris that the Tooth Fairy tends to be very generous on the first tooth.  Paris had her handy-dandy Tooth Fairy pillow all ready:

There’s a little pocket on the back side of that pillow that the all-important tooth is placed inside.  The little pillow is then tucked neatly under the regular pillow, and the Tooth Fairy knows what to do from there.

The Tooth Fairy was indeed generous on the first tooth…ten dollars!  Karen caught me grabbing pliers out of the garage…I was going to yank a tooth and see how much I could get.

Flashback!

We had some Halloween pix posted, but I stumbled across some more when I was grabbing these lost tooth pictures.  First of all, I meant to post this one and never got the chance.  I’m making up for it now…check this out:

A careful look might help you figure out what those little guys are…but let me tell you.  Those were the best damn chocolate covered strawberries ever…ever!  Mary Kate sent them to us on Halloween.  Incredible!  Thanks Mary Kate!

And I can’t do a Halloween item without another shot of Paris in costume.  This was taken about a week before Halloween…she was “warming up”:

No comment.

Tidbits:

Kristin made Honor Roll — congratulations!  She’s the smartest one in the whole family…

Cameron refuses to tell us anything about his life.  We think he’s been recruited by the CIA, and he just can’t talk.  His handler is someone that he insists is his girlfriend…but I’m not buying it.  But…he is on the phone with her…constantly.  So maybe there’s some truth to the claim….

Mark is on a Movement Order to Illinois on Monday.  He’s being sent out to watch Navy Football pound Northern Illinois.  There’s more than football to the story though…after the game, he hops a flight to New Jersey.  He’ll be giving a talk at his old High School about life at the Naval Academy.  Afterwards he hosts a question and answer time and engages in a little “recruiting” (I guess…).  I asked him how he was going to handle questions about the difficulties of Plebe year.  He said, “Dad, Plebe Year isn’t supposed to be fun.  They need to know that now, not later.”

Okay by me…

Movie! Test!

Filed Under (Extended family, Family, Paris) by Jay on 11-11-2008

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Our friends at Bill Webb Studio were kind enough to get our Plebe Summer video going, but now it’s time to test Jay’s skills.  Is he bright enough to post a video all by his lonesome?

Let’s find out.  We’ve got some kiddie footage taken in Grammy’s back yard.  Fun in the leaves!  And then…well…we have a little fun at Pop Pop’s expense.

But he’s got a birthday coming!  We’ll make it up to him!

Enjoy –

We Interrupt Our Regularly Scheduled Program

Filed Under (Cameron, Extended family, Family, Kristin, Mark, Paris, Uncategorized) by Jay on 08-11-2008

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(Original post 10/22/08 — repost 11/8/083

As many of you know, Karen, Paris and I were recently in New York, New Jersey and Pennsylvania for six days.  I planned on taking a ton of pictures and video, but we got so wrapped up in the “enjoying” our company part that we didn’t really shoot much footage of any of them.  This is especially true with Kristin and Cameron (the two we should have shot most!).

I do have some video I’ll try to piece together, and Sami was busy firing away with his camera.  Maybe he’ll share?

In the meantime, I received a DVD in the mail today from USNA courtesy of the Parents’ fund.  It’s a video detailing the fun known as “Plebe Summer”.  This is a generic USNA piece…it is not the video I expect to receive soon that will feature more of Mark.  But!  At the very beginning of this Plebe Summer video, you’ll see footage of our young man humping that damn zodiac he thought was so funny (until he had to carry it, row it and carry it again).  He may appear a couple of more times as well, but any of you that have searched through thousands of photos (like I have) know that “they all start to look alike”…

This thing is 18 minutes long.  It’s “okay”…it’s not going to rock your world, but it does offer some insight into the USNA experience and Plebe Summer.  If you have a chunk of time and you’re in the mood to learn about the madness, hit the “play” button.

Enjoy –


I’m trying to get away from the need for a YouTube link. YouTube doesn’t play nice with videos over 10 minutes long, and I thought the quality was just so-so. Since I’m on a Mac, I picked Quicktime as my default video player. My website host also prefers Quicktime. For you Windows Mediaplayer freaks out there…sorry. You probably have Quicktime on your machines anyway. If not…it’s free to download.

Make sure the video loads a bit before you hit “play”.

We’re using flash video now courtesy of our friends at Bill Webb Studio (no relation…sorry).  We owe them our thanks!  And I owe them some money…

Christopher!

Filed Under (Family) by Jay on 04-11-2008

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Chris’s senior pictures are in!  Mark, Kristin and Cameron often seem reluctant to share, but our nephew steps right up and gives us the goods!  We’ve got a couple of great ones here –

I like the casual shot best.  But some of you traditionalists will prefer this!

Important disclaimer: I picked the shots I liked best out of a pool of about 18 or so.  I’m betting Chris and I would agree on my picks…but you may prefer something different.  That’s okay!  Stephanie (Chris’s Mom for those of you in the extended family) will be more than happy to share the others with you.

Chris, in a few years when you’re busy setting the world on fire, look back on us with favor…pssst…checks are okay…

Only a few short months to go!  Congratulations Chris!

Halloween! (And other October business…)

Filed Under (Cameron, Family, Kristin, Mark, Paris) by Jay on 02-11-2008

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Okay! First off, some of you don’t wait for the infamous “Update!” email to arrive before checking in at Trunzo.com.  Normally this would bring tears of joy to my eyes.

But we live in an imperfect world, and I don’t claim to be an expert at this stuff.  So…some of you that checked in found a post that wasn’t behaving…

For those that don’t know, I tried like crazy to post a video of Plebe Summer courtesy of the Academy.  I had it working (well), and then it stopped cooperating.  I’ve taken the post down because it was preventing the entire site from loading in a timely fashion.  That’s the bad news…

But there’s good news!  I have an expert looking into our “issues”, and once the problem is resolved, I will get the post back up!  The video in question is “okay”, but we need to get this working.  Real videos are coming!  We want to make sure we’ve got all of our ducks in a row!

Let’s talk October!  As many of you know, Karen, Paris and I were in New York, New jersey and Pennsylvania earlier in the month.  Some of this is covered in the post that’s now down, but play along here, okay?  Anyway, one thing you can’t do in Florida is play in the autumn leaves.  Being a good Mom, Karen promised Paris that we’d go back “up North” this Fall to do just that!  And we got lucky!  We had some leaves, and we had some cousins, and we had neighbors, and we had fun!

Paris, Stephen and Troy after Poppop fired up the leaf blower!  But wait!  More leaf fun!

Unfortunately, I didn’t get any pictures of Grace!  There was a lot going on…maybe she was busy helping Grammy or something?  Grace!  We need pictures!

Oh!  Speaking of pictures…

We met Crissy and Kirk for brunch on Sunday morning. Kristin and Cameron joined us too…Nina’s!  Everyone’s favorite spot for brunch!  Karen and I pull up to the parking area, and what do we see?  We see someone dressed in the exact clothes Karen is wearing.  Karen is laughing hysterically…apparently this happens often whenever she and Crissy go anywhere together.  They swear there’s no planning involved…no phone calls…anyway, Kristin popped this on her cell phone –

Trust me.  Even the damn pants and shoes were the same.

Speaking of “looks”, the beginning of October marks the Naval Academy’s changeover in the world of fashion.  Gone are the Summer Whites (that so many of us kinda don’t like) — in come the Dress Blues!  The blue is actually black, but who’s going to argue with the Navy?  Check out the look (another cell phone shot):

Mark on the left (could you tell?), Susie, Alyssa (Susie’s sister), and of course…Cameron (green shoes and all).  That was taken on Columbus Day weekend when the mids had TWO overnight liberties courtesy of the most incredible, most awesome-est, best-ever, coolest damn Commandant on the Face of the Planet…

Captain Klunder!  Here he is with Mark and friends –

In case you’re wondering, he’s the guy with all the gold on his hat…

Captain Klunder is a true leader.  He’s certified qualified to fly somewhere in the neighborhood of 41 aircraft, he’s done the whole carrier thing, and he’s even been filmed in “compromising” positions for YouTube videos just to boost morale.  The mids will throw themselves under a bus for this guy.  I, for one, will give him a bug hug and a kiss when I see him next.

[UPDATE} 11/3 3:48 AM  Mark sent this insight about Captain Klunder after reading the original post:

Dad — Really cool update about Capt. Klunder:

USNA had its Halloween concert in the chapel this weekend  It sold out within two hours of tickets being on sale.  It’s that good. Anyway, Captain Klunder went to the Friday showing.  Mr. Houck (my squad leader) stayed after on Saturday night to help clean up the miles of cables and the mess.  As he’s backing up blowing confetti up to the wall, he bumps into someone.  He turns around to apologize, and he sees Capt. Klunder on his hands and knees in sweatpants cleaning the floor.  Capt. Klunder didn’t even go to the Saturday night show.  After he put his kids to bed that night he headed over just to help clean up.  That man is awesome.  The Commandant of Midshipmen is on the ground cleaning the floor.  He is probably the best Commandant the Academy has ever had.  Mark

Halloween!

So, a lot of you think that Florida is full of “old” people that shuffle around and hit the early bird dinners.  Some of you even think we’re nuts for moving here.  Wellll…

Let me tell ya’.  Our sleepy little town of Venice was packed with kids trick-or-treating the local merchants on Halloween!  It was literally elbow-to-elbow on the sidewalks, and everyone was having a great time!  Here’s some afternoon downtown action:

That was the “slow” end of the street.  Paris was just tuning up.

So.  What was she?  C’mon!  She was a Monster Bride!  Here’s a better look:

And check this out!  These next two pictures Paris took herself.  She was “trying on” her costume a few days before Halloween, and she decided to help herself to my desk, my chair, and my computer.  Kids today are amazing, and she has no trouble firing up my Mac’s iSight camera and having some fun.  She did this all by herself…I found these on my computer two days later:

She did the effects by herself too.  Not bad, right?

Back to Halloween.  “Old” people need to stay young too, and I say this with only the utmost affection…but these two were older than dirt.  But they’re having fun!

Seriously…her costume made her look younger…

We had a great time!  Paris hit downtown, then she hit the neighborhood.  I followed her and a friend around in the limo (i.e. golf cart), and when they wanted to get soemwhere fast, they hopped in and I hit the gas.  Karen and the friend’s Mom even jumped in every once in awhile (with Karen riding the back like a caddy…priceless!).

School Pictures!

Filed Under (Paris) by Jay on 10-10-2008

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Mommy as decided that “no retake will be necessary…”

What happened to our litle girl?  She’s certainly getting bigger!

Not so long ago…does anyone remember this?

Or this?

Oh my…

For the record, Kristin was pretty upset with me for posting one of her old school pictures.  Hopefully Paris won’t hold a grudge down the road.

And here’s an idea!  Maybe Kristin could make sure Dad gets a digital copy of her graduation/yearbook photo!  Wouldn’t that be nice?  All in favor say “yeah”…

World Animal Day, Tamani’s Birthday, Budding Photographer and Navy Football

Filed Under (Mark, Paris) by Jay on 05-10-2008

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Did I get it all in that title?

Yesterday was World Animal Day!  What’s that mean?  It means National Geographic gets to promote it’s magazine while also promoting wildlife and the need to protect much of it.  Tampa’s Lowrey Park Zoo was a part of the celebration, and Paris was there!  It was also Tamani’s 3rd birthday!  Cake!  (Yes, really…)

To help celebrate, Fisher Price was on hand to test a new kids’ camera line up.  They held a quick class on photography with the kids, and then they cut ‘em all loose in the zoo to take pictures with their test cameras.  This is how a budding photographer does her job:

And here is the birthday boy!  (At least I think Tamani is a boy…)

Who is this guy?

I gotta tell ya’, folks…giraffes have extremely long tongues.  Paris was feeding this guy…and she wasn’t happy.  I don’t think she’ll ever feed another zoo animal…ever…

Back to our photographer.  She took 139 pictures!  Fisher Price was happy happy!

And check this out: penguins in Florida?  These are actually African penguins…they don’t mind the heat at all:

Oh!  As a final surprise, Congress was in town for more meetings about the “economic crisis” they created.  It was supposed to be a secret, and as you can see, getting busted making back room deals isn’t pretty…but hey!  They should all be kicked out!  Check out this deal making:

Final note:

What makes life much easier for our favorite midshipman?  A Navy Football victory!  Navy beat Air Force yesterday 33-27.  Yeah baby!  (Pssst…Mark watched the game at his Sponsor Family’s house…Dad is a retired Air Force Colonel…Mark exercised a great deal of restraint in the Family Room…I think everything is going to be okay…)

New York, Radio, Family and Friends…and Annapolis

Filed Under (Cameron, Extended family, Kristin, Mark) by Jay on 26-09-2008

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Here it is Friday already  — I’m so late with this update that it borders on silly.

Last week I was invited by a client to appear on his weekly radio show in New York — Sayegh Advice.  His last name (Sayegh) is pronounced “sage”…so now you get the play on words.  According to Oma (Karen’s Mom), I’m now a legitimate radio star.  I have yet to hear the results of the broadcast, but I can assure all of you that live radio is not as intimidating as you might think.  I don’t think I wet myself once…

So!  What’s a hard-working guy and proud Dad supposed to do with his time in the Great Northeast?  See the kiddies of course!  Kristin, Cameron and I had a chance to relax together, eat good food, and visit close friends.  We enjoyed dinner on the first night with Mary Kate (who was also kind enough to pick me up at the airport), and we also gorged ourselves on Night Two at Angelo’s with Sami, Jacquie, Jack and Cemile (Jack’s Nene and Sami’s Mom).

I had a camera with me, but I didn’t take many pictures.  I also shot a lot of video, but my videography skills are poor at best…I can’t even edit the footage to make it presentable.  But Sami did get one great shot of Kristin and Jack:

C’mon now…is that a great shot?  Damn right it is…

Wednesday, Thursday and Friday were NY days, and then it was off to Annapolis on Saturday.  The plan was to see Navy play Rutgers (football) and then have dinner with Mark.

Everyone is familiar with the Marine Corps. motto, right?  Semper Fidelis — always faithful.  Well, Naval Academy parents have their own motto: Semper Gumby — always flexible.  A Mid’s parents can plan all they want, but if the Academy decides it wants to change things, things get changed.  In this case, the changes were for the better!

I was lucky enough to catch a ride to Annapolis with the great guy that runs Sami’s BMW Service Department (Craig).  Sami and Craig made sure we traveled in style in a big-ass 750i that gobbled up the miles without a hiccup.  On the way, we got a text message from Mark suggesting we have lunch.  Lunch?  Lunch wasn’t in the plan, but as it turned out, he had liberty from noon to two before the game.  Wonderful!  Craig set the cruise control on warp speed, and we barreled into Annapolis with several million other people attending 1st and 2nd class parents’ weekends, homecoming, 8 bazillion class reunions (including John McCain’s complete with Secret Service), and a Rutger’s fan contingent that covered the area in red.

We had a quick lunch before Mark had to bail in order to form up for the march on.

If you’ve never seen a march on, you should.  4,000 plus midshipmen hit the streets of Annapolis between the Yard and Memorial Stadium to march into the stadium and on to the field.  The locals turn out to toss candy and drinks to the Mids (who are not supposed to look like they’re catching them).  It’s a serious but fun parade and at this time of year, a sea of white uniforms.

The Mids form up on the field and do what they’re trained to do — look impressive.  Then…and this was so cool to a newcomer like me…the Mids all pivot as one to face the Visitor’s side of the field.  The Rutger’s fans may be supporting the “opposition”, but they’re Americans first and they know “cool” when they see it.  Everyone in those seats got their red-draped rear-ends up out of their seats and screamed their heads off as the Mids chanted “R-U-T-G-E-R-S….go Rutgers!”  Then, and again as one, the Mids all tipped their hats to the crowd in a professional manner…and the visiting crowd went bananas.

Cool, right?  It gets better.  The Mids pivot again as one and face the Navy side of the Stadium.  The place goes ape-shit.  This is a crowd that knows the drill, and in unison with the Mids (who are somehow much louder now than when they chanted the Rutgers cheer), the whole place erupts with “N-A-V-Y…GO NAVY…FIGHT!”  Directly beneath me, a freakin’ cannon goes off.  I kid you not.  The Mids who fire the damn thing are wearing ear plugs…couldn’t they warn the rest of us?  The Rutgers fans around me duck like they’re being bombed, and the stadium is a madhouse of screaming fans, flying cheerleaders, and blue and gold everywhere.  Two Osprey’s fly overhead for the flyover and blow every one’s minds as they stop, hover, and take off like UFO’s.  It is an incredible environment.

During the game, I roam around hoping to be able spend some time with Mark.  Normally, the Mids are restricted to “Brigade seating”, but because it was Parents’ weekend for two classes, the rules were a bit relaxed.  We ended up eating really messy food for a bit before he had to return to his seat about midway through the third quarter.

At halftime, I ran into Tony (our favorite pizza guy in Warwick!). Tony and I pulled a lot of hair out together during the Fall of 2007 while we both waited to hear if our sons earned their appointments.  Now we both get to smile and enjoy the experience (and what an experience it is…).

When Mark returned to his seat, I joined Craig and his Dad in their seats for the rest of the game.  Any of you that know Craig should become his best friend.  Those of you that don’t know Craig should call Orange County BMW and schedule your car for service…even if you drive a Nissan.  Craig’s seats are phenomenal!  We had a blast as Navy used the final two minutes to win a very tough game.  Yes!

When Navy Football emerges victorious, good things tend to happen.  First, as the game progressed, we learned that a plebe had bet the Commandant (Capt. Klunder) that Navy would win.  If it seems unusual that the Commandant would bet against his own team, please understand that plebes must bet the game if challenged by an upperclassman or officer, and the plebe must always take the Navy side of the bet.  In this case, the bet was made when Navy was down.  I don’t know what the plebe offered on her side of the bet, but the ‘Dant said “if you plebes can fire up the Brigade and help Navy win, I’ll grant you an overnight.”

Word spread like bird flu in China.  Plebes sit down in the front of the Brigade, and suddenly, it looked like somebody spiked their cokes with acid.  They went absolutely bat-shit trying to rally the Brigade into mass hysteria.  It worked!

The Navy side of the field was pandemonium, and Navy slowly worked it’s way back into position to ultimately and dramatically win the game!

But!  The bet stipulated that the overnight was to be awarded on Columbus Day weekend.  The ‘Dant decided the plebes deserved more, so he awarded the overnight on the spot!  Get out of Dodge, boys and girls!  Absolute insanity!

As a side note, I’ve since learned that the Commandant upheld his end of the bargain for Columbus Day as well…and then some.  Mark just told me that they’ll be awarded two nights of liberty for the long weekend!  Let me tell you…you have to be a plebe or a parent to really appreciate just how significant this is…

Okay…back to the football game…or the aftermath, anyway:

Mark and I grabbed a cab and hit one of his favorite dinner spots — Ruth’s Chris.  I’m wondering…have any of you ever seen a human being inhale about 12 ounces of steak?  This kid had a filet the size of a softball covered in crab meat…and it was gone in about six seconds.  He demolished an entire platter of au gratin potatoes, and he gnawed on onion rings while contemplating dessert (banana creme pie).  Wow.

Then…relaxation time.  We strolled over to DTA (Mid-speak for downtown Annapolis), we talked with a few friends of his (who were leaving town to do God knows what), we had more dessert (yes…more…a huge bowl of ice cream at his favorite place), we hit Bancroft Hall to grab a change of clothes, and then we crashed at my hotel.  Mids love “real beds” and Mark is no exception.

Unfortunately, there was no way to know that Mark would have a day of freedom on Sunday (normally Sunday liberty is restricted to the Yard), so I had a flight to catch.  Mark made arrangements with his wonderful sponsor family to spend the day kicking back at their place, and I flew back to Paradise.  All in all, it was a great surprise and a great weekend!

Now…as Columbus Day rolls near, Mark’s Mom, Susie, and Susie’s family will all be in Annapolis for the long weekend.  With two overnights scheduled, it’s sure to be a great time!

For us, we most likely won’t see Mark again until Christmas.  He’s coming off a week of mid term exams now, and he’ll be spending Thanksgiving in New Jersey.  Maybe if we’re lucky…

But we’re due back in New York in just a few short weeks!  Kristin and Cameron…get ready!

Weekend Update

Filed Under (Cameron, Kristin, Mark, Paris, Uncategorized) by Jay on 31-08-2008

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Labor Day weekend! I hope everyone is enjoying a safe and happy Holiday.

We have news on a few fronts. Youngest first, shall we?

Paris finished her second full week of kindergarten. She’s adjusting very well to her new school, her new teachers, and the new demands! So much responsibility!

Cameron is playing soccer for his High School team. I haven’t been able to extract all of the details from him, but apparently the competition at this level is a little steeper than what’s he’s been faced with in the past. Maybe he can give us an update? Cameron?

Kristin is enjoying a weekend with Grammy and Herb in the Poconos. The boys had the pleasure of doing this a summer or so ago, and they had a blast — literally! Family friends Jeff and Anna Mae have a cabin on a beautiful lake complete with a private airstrip, shooting range, ATV’s and water sports. I doubt Kristin will be allowed to fly and shoot at the same time, but she’ll have fun nonetheless. Maybe she can give us an update? Kristin?

(Notice the subtle pressure to participate being applied to the kids…)

And finally, Midshipman Mark. It’s been a rough week for our oldest. He’s busy…so busy, that I won’t even go into the details. “Late night chits” (which grant permission to stay up late to study), early morning study sessions (keeping in mind that they already normally get up at 5:30), Company duties, Varsity Cross Country practice…he’s whipped. Liberty was suspended yesterday (much to his anger and disappointment), but he does have liberty today. What’s he doing first? Taking a nap…what’s that tell you?

But! Yesterday was the first Navy football game of the season! I’m not a big football fan, but you gotta love the Navy spirit and program. How many schools look like this just before a game?

Midshipmen taking their seats…think they have a few?

Yeah…there are even more!

So here’s the question of the day: can we tell where the USNA students sit?

Ahhhh…tradition! Whenever Navy scores, plebes do push ups. Did anyone catch the score yesterday? Um…the plebes did a lot of push ups. Navy won 41-13.

After the game, Mark enjoyed some fine tailgate food until about 9:30. Don’t laugh…any of you that have been to an Army or Navy game can attest that the tailgating is dead serious. Great food, and lots of it! The NJ Parents’ Club trucks down catering trailers (plural) for every home game…and they’re just one club! The various parents’ clubs and alumni associations treat the Mids incredibly well!

Here in Sunny Florida, we’re intermittently sunny. Hurricane Gustav is getting ready to slam the Louisiana coast, and we’re getting affected by some of the outer bands. That means periodic rain and gusty winds. Yesterday while on my regular bike route, I noticed the Gulf was smooth as glass. By comparison, we’re being warned of 7 to 10 foot waves today. By Gulf standards, that’s a freakin’ tsunami…

Tomorrow will be back to normal! We plan to relax today, relax tomorrow and recharge the batteries! Hope all of you do the same!